What can shoes tell about Russian women?

Humanity invented a lot of tests to find out more about unknown people. Certainly, to find out the hidden depth of a Russian woman soul just looking at her legs is almost impossible, but psychologists claim that some things can be revealed.

Independant Russian brides!

Russian women about shoesIf a Russian woman  is wearing sneakers all the time, this fact can prompt us that this lady is independent, not ready for self-sacrificing and doesn’t care about someone’s opinion. She knows her own directions in her life and values her own opinion about life. She is firmly moving to reach her goals and sometimes doing so marching on the heads of people surrounding her. The Russian brides main advantage is her ability to be devoted to her friends and never let her friend down in any life hardships – she is a real friend for her friend.

When we see beautiful legs of Russian woman engraved with elegant high heeled shoes we can assume that she tends to live in a grand style. She loves high society parties, celebrations and other burlesque events. Her slogan is: – “From all options – choose the best!” She is able to succeed in professional carrier, but, in most cases, under the guidance of a brave and strong man.

Self assured Russian women!

If Russian women own low boots – she is an ambitious and self assured lady. About her you may be sure that she is conceited and directed only to success. She is not an easy going person because she prefers a carefully plan and acts only according to it. But if she made her choice you might be sure that she will start moving like a tank. She always keeps her promises. These Russian brides are able to keep any secrets – she is not a gossiper type.

Ballet shoes/doll shoes or shoes-boats, as the Russian women call it, is worn by a very romantic, full of dreams woman. That lady always has a creative hobby like dancing, painting, music, singing, planting or knitting. Her nature makes her tend to order in everything but her thoughts about ideal love make her a little bit strange in the eyes of other people. Out of movies she prefers romantic drama which inspire her to search for her “Prince” for quite a long time, and even when she gets disappointed in her love, she will never lose hope to meet her real and true future husband.

It is believed that Russian woman who wares sandals or moccasins can solve the most difficult problems. Self-control and analytical thinking always help her to make the right choice and to receive more benefits out of any situation. She is able to control her emotions as well as to influence other’s decisions. That woman has strong will and high demands and those features help her to build a happy life. Her partner should be an intellectual one and this is the main requirement.

All said above is just a short reference, and only time can show how true is this theory about each Russian woman is.

About using Russian dating services – seen from the Russian women’s side

Dating Russian WomenRussian dating sites and services are floating on the internet these days. Just as these services exists, and being used by Russian women, there are just as many questions, and even more, about are the Russian dating sites for real and are they trustable?

If you are serious in dating Russian women it is also likely to believe that you did a certain amount of research before registering on any of the Russian dating services available on the market today. If you desire to have a beautiful Russian bride as your future wife it is no more than common sense that this is being done. However, registering at any serious service doesn’t automatically bring Russian women directly to your doorstep. Most Russian dating sites are excellent for you to start communication either via instant messages, letters or numerous chat facilities. The real chemistry doesn’t appear in any way unless you choose to meet in reality. It is your choice to find out.

Meeting Russian Women

The decision of many men travelling to Russia or Ukraine for dating potential Russian women to be their future wife has led to different outcomes sometimes causing no result at all. The reasons might be different but in majority it can be categorized as no focus on the real reason for travelling and misunderstanding the nature of serious minded Russian dating services. As many destinations in Eastern Europe gives overwhelming opportunities for foreign men travelling there for the first time it is easy to “get lost” in this jungle. The amount of beautiful ladies walking the streets, visiting the cafes and the night clubs is enormous, and why shouldn’t one of these ladies be willing to date with any men from the West as well? This is where common sense should be activated as Russian dating services are present not only to take money away from you.

Using real Russian dating servcies

The real Russian women are, on the other hand, interested to find a real man for them. Since they often cannot perform in this sphere on their own a Russian dating agency is a major player for them. The agency is connected with a large amount of foreign men willing to meet and the service is convenient as it provides security and privacy in the beginning as well. Before thinking about making your dating adventure too economic, keep a few things in mind. The Russian dating service is doing a job by selecting and filtering real Russian brides and is not a facility just for open wallets. Second, keep in mind that Russian women are not only beautiful on the outside. They have a rich inner world that requires attention and actions from a real gentleman.

This fact escalated recently when communication with a Russian bride somehow made it clear where the lady is working. It was at a café, and that made it very convenient for the man as he could simply go there and wait for the lady he had been communicating with, even without making it a fixed date on forehand. As this is her place of working it was not satisfactory for her at all, and certainly because she is not sharing her private life with all her colleagues. Definitely it was not the romantic happening she was hoping for. Dating with any man is a very private thing for Russian women, just as it should be for foreign men as well. The lady he had been communicating with and with whom he wanted to get further acquainted was not happy about their first meeting and asked to be deleted from the service. The man, on the other hand, used his effort in online communication and then by wasted creativity in making some economy spoiled what he was building up during several months before their planned meeting.

When you start planning your acquaintance and dating with Russian women, use the effort on finding the Russian dating services that is serious and real and ready to give you what you need – dating with Russian girls who potentially can be your future wife and give you the happiness you need.

What is the ideal husband for Russian woman?

Russian WomenIn the minds of all Russian women the ideal husband should have such controversy traits as: decision taking rigidity and mildness in private affairs, ability to give commands and to accept his Russian woman’s freaks and wishes, to love surprises and to be unpredictable, be able to listen and love to listen to any kind of dialogue.  What is left to a man who wants Russian woman to like him? Just to imitate the unreachable perfection.

Very often men have to pretend just to follow the rules of the Russian women game. At the beginning he has to buy flowers and sweets, later on coffee in bed and he has to do it not just because he wants to do it, but because he must. He also has to give unreal promises if he wants to fit the ideal man’s traits.

Russian women are examining men thinking about what improvements he should go through to be accepted: his hair cut, shaving or maybe some clothes to change. The ideal man should be styled, beautiful and successful.

If a Western gentleman makes good money, he is working very good and everyday he should come with flowers to his Russian bride after his work. He never goes to clubs with his friends, never makes friends with other women and all the time he is thinking only about her.

Her phone calls always make him happy and he does not hesitate to tell her, in presence of his colleges, to tell her how much he is missing her – because his Russian woman just wants a couple of warm words more. It is so sweet from him!

What Russian Women are demanding!

Russian women demands tenderness. A man should provide her full scopes of fillings. Only thing she has to do – just pay attention to his traits and to maintain long time relationships. Vulgarly saying “to saw his brains day and night.”

A very common phrase that you are going to hear from Russian women is: – “Do not press on me!”  Women are so tender and fragile that they are not able to press. A man should be strong, be tough in making decisions and able to say “NO”. But in dispute with a woman, he should always give up a woman. And one more thing is important: ideal man never gets in dispute with a woman.

Waiting for the ideal men Russian women can spend the whole life. And they spend. Even between two expectancies, they fell in love, get married, build their illusions and then get disappointed again.

May be the same way live their life not only Russian women???

How Russian women should get accustomed to Men’s bad habbits

Many men are just the cause of Russian women irritation: socks scattered around the house, dirty and sweaty T-shirt, watching football etc. But, there are a lot of habits of Russian women that men can hardly bare. Let’s have a closer look how women could find compromise between the cause of their irritation and solution that might bring peace to both sides.

Cause #1
If a Russian woman likes order in all things in the house and wants her man to follow this order of things – that’s alright. That means this lady, by doing this order work, calms down herself and it is a sedative remedy to her that helps to prevent neurosis and gives a feeling of confidence and harmony. But it wouldn’t be right to expect the same from a man. Actually, the mind of a man is busy with global thoughts: financial problems, or where better to buy spare parts or how to kick neighbor’s ass. A man always engaged in strategy planning but miscellaneous things – this is not his business.

Solution
If she is not able to live without ideal order in the house – this is her private problem. She can clean brush all the house but better not to expect high evaluation from a man, finally she is doing for herself. If she feels that she is not able to drive a man into German order – she should lower her requirements to him.

Cause #2
From time to time Russian woman likes to talk about diet trying to involve him to her diet. Any man takes this as attack on his style of food and declaration of this can really make him very angry. Man’s sexual function depends on amount of meat and spices in it, which are called aphrodisiacs.

Solution
If Russian brides wants to lose their weight she can do it herself without informing a man. If her diet program works, she will receive confidence about her beauty. Certainly, a man will notice this transformation, but he doesn’t care about the way how she managed to receive this result.

Cause #3
Beautiful Russian woman constantly attempts to eliminate all unpleasant smells and reminds her man about sprays he should use. Honestly, men have better reaction on scents than women and a man value in a woman the scent that belongs only to her because his woman’s scent strongly sexually affects him. The movie “Scent of a woman” just proved that. If a woman often uses different odors, it may reduce sexual attraction of a woman for this man. Plus your rejection of his smell might be classified as refuse to have sexual affairs and all reminders will be accepted aggressively by a man.

Solution
A woman should try to accustom her man to use a scent that is pleasant for both of them. As men can feel stronger scents than women, their memory for scents is also much stronger. The scent which reveals associations with some special sexual moments is able to create positive reaction for a long time.

Cause #4
Russian woman, sooner or later, starts discussing her Russian girl friends with her husband and she expects her man to approve her attitude to girl friends. It is not an easy task for a man to get inside all peculiarities of women affairs. A man is not happy about that because the main thing for him it is actions and not so much feelings. A woman should be aware that if one peculiarity from her girl friend’s life is caught by his attention, right from that moment a woman should start worry.

Solution
A woman should restrict area of communication her girl friends only by her. Her husband is not a territory that they allowed to visit. There should be no combined holidays or stories about former beauty. If a man showed his interest in one of her girl friends it is better to forget about her in talks with a man.

Cause #5
Russian brides always like to recollect all details of affairs development starting from the beginning. A man is with her – what to talk about? Those attempts can bring not so much cause all those memories do not touch a man. To show his attitude to her with some real steps – yes, but not with words. That’s how all men have been constructed.

Solution
It’s better not demand from a man detailed memory everyday about your affairs history. Better use your girl friend for that memory intercourse, but not that one who could be jealous.

Mature ladies confirm their habit of talking about nothing all the time, just information transmitting and that is killing men softly.

How Money influence affairs between Russian women and Russian men

Russian Women MoneyMostly every Western gentleman dating Russian women is asking the same question: – “Why are so many Russian girls searching for men outside the former CIS countries?” The economic component of life is very important for every modern family; Russia and Ukraine just prove the rule. Attitude towards Russian women from their Russian men has changed recently. Here we are giving direct women’s stories about money ruining force of their families and affairs with their men.

“I have divorced with my husband. He moved to another city. Later we tried to restore our affairs. My former tried to join me but he was not sure if he would manage to find a job in my city. I was in search of a baby-sitter for our little son and my husband offered himself for that vacancy. I asked him: – “For money?” “Yes, You would pay for that anyway, but I need money and to pay to my daughter from my first marriage” – suggested he. Such beautiful perspective to pay to my husband for sitting with my son turned to me as wild and humiliating. I decided not to restore our relations. I found a baby-sitter and in one year I married another man.”

Nastya, 31 y.o  Economist

“Before, I thought that money in women-men affairs is not an important question.  One of my last men was a doctor who I met on the conference and fell in love with him but our affairs moved slowly. Once I was on my holiday at the sea hotel. I called him and invited him because I’ve got an opportunity to settle him for free in that hotel. My beloved arrived with one field flower and said that he didn’t buy champagne because he thought that I had it in my room. I didn’t pay attention to that fact cause my love made me blind. We met again several times in another city – everything was by the same scenario. Last drop happened when he called me and asked to pick him up at the airport upon his arrival from Milan and bring him to railway station because he has to live for another city. I refused and invited him to come to me and help me to paint the walls because I was making repair works inside my apartment. Nobody arrived that day – my romance was over. I think that it doesn’t matter how much money people gain – it should be enough to satisfy needs of both.”

Kate, 30y.o. Doctor

“I do not understand how a Russian woman can be dependent on men’s money. I’m not a keeper of the oven, so nothing to pay for me. I do not have a lot of money to keep my man. Just note that I didn’t say a word about love. I think that money and love are different notions. We should love each other without money – just for beautiful eyes”.

Alexandra 28y.o. Designer

“If a man earns less money he should have more additional responsibilities. In affairs it is very important to have exchange: you give to me and I give to you. I think this is the right pattern for normal affairs”

Helen, 32y.o. Accountant

“It is very important for me how a man spends his money. One of my colleagues was very funny, easy going man who always was attentive to all ladies inside our company. Once we took a taxi together  after a company party, our apartments were close, but he left earlier and gave me a half of drive fee. Logically it was ok but it was not a gentlemen’s behavior, as for me. A clever man spends his money on kids, family, parents, etc. I do not care how much he gets but it is very important to know that when I need money I can receive it from him”.

Larisa, 25y.o. Architect   

“I was born in a family with old traditions: my grandfather and my father always supplied the family. We had no discussions about who is supplying family with the money – only men. My grandmother and my mother earned quite good money and they always were free how to spend money. Man’s financial condition is just like a reflection of his wit: clever man will never live in poverty and find out the way how to make money. I’m not saying about millions – I’m just saying about man’s responsibility to make life convenient for his family. When your girlfriend id swimming in the Mediterranean Sea and you hardly can make a living, very soon jealousy will start eating you from inside. It is killing you softly when your kids are suffering from this. I’m sure that normal man will never let you suffer financially”.

Lida 26, y.o. Manager

“Mom of my school girl friend liked to say that love stops when there is no money for bread. We didn’t agree with that but in my life I tested the bitter taste of those words. I got married and got a kid and left my job for some time and it turned out that I left my family without income. My husband didn’t manage to support the family. Money disappeared for a long time. Constant quarrels brought us to divorce”.

Maria, 35y.o. Teacher

“Love is a sacred gift that money has nothing to do with”

Tanya,23y.o. Paparazzi  

“If money is the base of affairs we may forget about love. My husband always made good money and very often he was on business trips. I forgave him even his short love adventures but one day he decided to move out from me to some other lady forever. Certainly I was very disappointed and one of my girlfriends tried to cheer me up by saying that he would come back when his money were over. Why do I need a man without money?!”

Vera,38,y.o. Manager

“I was very naive when thought that to supply family it should be blood of every man. My husband is a creative person and was not ready to supply the family. Long talks and discussions changed the situation to better but a lot of work is ahead. I absolutely agree that happiness it is not about the money, it is quantity of them that should cover not only current expenses but also holidays for your soul”.

Svetlana,33.y.o. Painter 

“When I put myself in a man’s place I wonder why the hell in the world he has to pay a Russian girl just because the nature gave her opportunity to give birth. It is not fair! But if a man wants to be the father of the family he should buy those vacancies”.

Lyudmila, 26 y.o. Interpreter

“One day my husband lost his job and it lasted for two months. We had a just born kid and the whole family lived for money that state gave as after birth help. I understood that my man was in constant search for job, so I didn’t blame him because he didn’t spend the last money on beer. He suffered from this situation very much. But if he behaved another way or stayed out of job longer – I would kick him out”.

Laura, 26y.o. Lawyer 

“I hate mercantile Russian girls! Once my son got back from a date with his girl and said that his girl left him because she asked for an expensive fur coat. Certainly, my son was not able to buy it for her. She said that one “daddy” will buy it for her easily. I explained to my son that he shouldn’t regret – that was a wrong choice. The ugliest thing is that consuming nature of modern girls becomes the norm of behavior. Everything is measured with money – very pity”.

Nadya, 52y.o. Housewife

“I had men with different level of income. One was a director with income 100 000 USD a year, another was a marketing manager, the 3rd had situational income but everybody paid for my coffee, taxi and travel. I never asked for anything from them but they did that way themselves. I always tried to pay but they refused to take my contribution. Money is a very good test for men I think.”

Kate 30 y.o. Owner of Company

“Even the strongest feelings will be killed in discussions about how to buy cheese or meat. If no one of the partners has money, they won’t live happily for a long time. Someone will leave for sure and I think that this will be the woman”.

Yana 25 y.o. Advertisement Manager

“Just a couple of years ago I would answer that money should bring to the family that partner who was able to do that better. Today I’d like to add one more condition: If your partner is doing everything possible to earn money too. I also would like to advise my daughter to find a man who can be financially independent or willing to be.”

Masha 42 y.o. Salesperson

“It is me who is responsible for getting money inside my family. If there is no money for food I try to loan some money from my friends. My man has no job now. It happened that world’s crises kicked him out of labor market, plus his not young of age was also not a helping factor. I’ll be patient till I have something to eat.”

Lyoubov 50 y.o.  

P.S. Eighty five percent of Russian women are sure that their men can earn more money.